I was privileged to be a son-in-law to David Bowers for over 31 years and during those many years I was always amazed how even keeled, humble, and patient he was. He was a big man but a gentle man and as Eric said, he was "quiet, yet firm". I would often watch him at the farm when all the family was present (9 kids) and wonder how in the world he took care of that crew. Yet, he provided, protected, and cared for all of them, even when times were quite lean. It was evident that he taught the family that joy and prosperity were not to be found in "things", but in relationships - God and family.
His faith was his driving force in life and that faith impacted his church and his family. I always enjoyed hearing him pray for he liked to use the old King James language - the thees and thous. But his prayers were sincere and his prayers were heard and answered by God above. And even though we grieve his passing, it is his prayer of salvation that brings us joy knowing that he responded to God's grace by placing his faith in Jesus as his Lord and Savior (in western Kansas, by the way).
So on this day, I thank the Lord above for allowing me to have a great dad-in-law, David Bowers, a man whose character and integrity reflected the faith that he so vividly lived out on a day to day basis. He will be dearly missed, but as a Christian and fellow believer I am not saying "goodbye", just "see ya later".
A picture from the funeral home - David and Shirley, the family, the rocking horse that he made for each grandchild, his tools and gloves, some Army momentos and a little John Deere tractor (see next picture). All great memories.
This was David's 730 John Deere he used in the field for years and years. After it was sold on the farm sale, Greg (oldest son) found out that it was being restored and bought it back after the restoration. How awesome is that??
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David in many ways reminded me of Abraham Lincoln. He was tall and lanky, a simple man. When words or action were required, you could tell he would think about it first, and then calmly but with authority said what he had to say. No more, no less.
Losing a parent is tough. Mary Lou, you, and the rest of the Bowers clan are in Lori's and my prayers. KF
Soo sorry to hear of your loss. It is so sad but such a part of life/ precious and short. God bless you in your sorrow. He sounded like such a great person. You are in our thoughts and prayers.Teresa
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