In light of S. M.'s children story Sunday morning I wonder how many of us really believe that it is better to give than to receive? After a little reflection (ouch) I've noticed that some of the giving is not necessarily positive, you know what I mean? Some people like to give their advice when it's not advice at all but their judgment. Some people like to give their opinions without thinking through the tone in which they are said or the impact they may have on thoise who are possibly going through difficult times. Some people love to give the latest news that they've heard without ever checking out the facts. And some flat like to give others a hard time, a regular burr under the saddle, no matter the occasion. I don't think that's the giving that this time of the year (or any time of year) represents.
As far as receiving presents, compliments, pats on the backs, affirmations - you bet, we all like that. And if we enjoy being affirmed and appreciated, don't you think others do as well? Of course they do.
As we move closer to Christmas day, may I suggest that that we give of ourselves to others. Give graciously of our time, our words, our deeds. People "get" enough of the negative stuff out there. Let's not be those who perpetuate that kind of giving. But let us be observant of those around us, those who have lost loved ones, those who are struggling with cancer, those who are facing financial difficulties, those who just need a word of encouragement, even a hug. Let us make a consious effort to give of ourselves in a loving manner that best exemplifies who we are as Christians. It may be our best Christmas ever.
5 comments:
Good one, PR!!
Let's make it a game - who can affirm the other first? Can you "give" a positive comment before the one you meet (see, talk to) does? And then can we receive the "gift" graciously??
Come on, I was looking for an adult contest!
Ah, but it IS the contest. Winning the contest will be determined by whether you seek merely to "get" or whether you choose to "give". We'll see, won't we. P.R.
question about affirmations...a friend mentioned the other day that she noticed the methodist church does a lot more recognition and pat on the backs than her baptist church. she thought maybe that the baptist church focused more on humility than what the methodist church does. agree? disagree? indifferent? - oldest and wisest son
That doesn't sound like too humble of a statement. Affirmation or encouragement has nothing to do with pride or arrogance. My experience with people who don't do so (encourage, etc.)see the faith as individualistic and stand offish. Comparing humility to affirmation is like comparing apples to oranges.
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